The Allure of Threesomes

If there is one thing that I fantasize about more than any other, it's threesomes.

I've been fascinated by them ever since I became sexually aware. I remember being a teenager and masturbating in my bedroom at night, imagining being with two girls from school. Somehow, for me then it was about geometry. I guess I didn't know any better. The two girls would lay parallel to each other and I would be the diagonal. That was it. It is a peculiar fantasy when you think about it. After all, in that configuration nothing more is happening than in a regular missionary twosome. Penetration action down there, kissing action up there; what difference does it make that the down there and the up there are not from the same person?

As it turns out, there is a difference. As a teenager I didn't know why that turned me on. As a 40 year-old, I know all too well what captures my imagination. It's not just more hands to touch and stimulate. Sex happens in your brain. Wanting to share someone with somebody else is incredibly sexy. That openness and freedom to pursue pleasure and orgasms without being constrained by the limits of traditions and beliefs is just… hot.

The other night, after giving Cate an orgasm with my mouth, I slid up to kiss her and she whispered how good I tasted. "I want to taste another woman's pussy on your lips," I told her. And just the sexiness of those words got us going for a while longer. Especially now that my cock was near her pussy.

There was also another time recently where I was fucking Cate from behind, laying down on top of her. She was able to turn her head and we were kissing at the same time, and even though it was an intensely intimate moment between us, my playful mind conjured up the vision of another woman laying down in front of us, legs spread wide, her pussy right there for us to sample together.

When I masturbate in the shower, I often imagine just making out with two curvy women. It's the idea of my cock rubbing against their soapy wet bodies that makes me get fully hard, and then I let myself go to orgasm imagining Cate helping me make the other woman come. That's actually a big portion of it for me: orgasms. I like trying to get as much pleasure as possible out of orgasms, and teaming up to drive someone to the brink of bliss is just perfect.

For some reason a lot of men are not interested in a threesome with another man but that's something I would be very interested in. The idea of giving Cate twice as much cock fun is a big turn on. What could there be not to like? I would love to lay there after coming inside her and watch the other guy have his turn with her. I would most definitely look at her face, admire her body moving. And if the guy is up for it, I would very much want to taste him covered with my wife's juices. Or team up with her to give him a mind-blowing orgasm.

A long time ago I was talking with a girlfriend about the possibility of having a threesome. She had actually brought it up herself, in an oblique but obvious way, and I was telling her that to me, that would be like a gift we would give ourselves. I still feel that way.

Sharing together another person is a gift. A very sexy gift. Way better than any toy or Valentine's treat.